HOUSE PLANS LIBRARY - home plans Questions

Question: I have caught my dad cheating numerous times?

( Back )

Answer #1:

Well, of course as you probably know, parents have the right over children that are under the age of eighteen (which is the legal age of adulthood).

If you truely want to be free from your father's parental guidence you can go to court and ask a judge to be an emancipated minor. This basically means that you would be free from your parents rules and able to be determined by the court as an adult.

There are some things to think about though, because your parents would no longer by law be required to house and feed you. But if you can do this on your own, theres no problem.

You can always talk to an officer about the abusement and that would involve maybe family counseling or harsher punishments. If you would rather not have much drama you can try and wait it out until your eighteen...your almost there. Hope this helps, anymore questions feel free to contact me :) goodluck.

Answer #2:

sorry so "your dad' has behaved this way for years...its not fair to you nor your mom. He is acting out, outta of guilt, and in selfish ways. Shame on him, sorry to say I know he is your dad, but maybe you'll have to let go or put space between you two, only because he is not an honest man. He needs counseling, not you. You need to feel loved by him, not hurt.

Answer #3:

wow you sound like a younger version of me! really. my father cheated on my mom and still does for the last 26 years, now it is common knowledge in the house but no one dare talk of it. my dad used to slam my head into walls, bust my face open, choke me, he even knocked me out once but has never touched my younger brother. and when i was 16 i ran away for a month to live with my bf at the time (husband now). the only thing i can say is that its his problem and you just have to get through it, anyway you can. if you have another place to live then maybe you should do that. i know that when i came back because he made me things only got worse. now im married and about to have my third kid and haven't lived there in 8 years and things are still awkward when i go around. so just make sure you get your education and do what you need to do for you so your never going to need to depend on him for a thing.

Answer #4:

About the abuse from your dad, you can tell a cop. About your dad running around on your mom, what does your mom say? You didn't say anything about your mom knowing. What does your mom think about you staying with your bf? What is going to happen when you come up having a baby? at 16 or 17. If your mom don't know what is going on you need to tell her. Oh! and by the way, now that you are gone your dad will start picking on your brother, if you don't think so just set back and see. (YOU) have to say something to some one!! Good luck.

Answer #5:

The greatest revenge is to forgive him , if he has some soft corner in his heart he will realize that he was wrong to you. Never hate your father hate his attitude which can be changed by your loving behavior. May be his parents were bad at him hence this thing also came along with his nature.

** Powered by Yahoo Answers