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Answer #1:

Listen to your heart.
If you really find that you are in love with him then it'll work it.
You have to decide if he's worth it or not.
Until then just keep things at bay as they are.

Answer #2:

Airplanes make things closer.Wait until you go out and then your heart will tell you if its worth it.If things really work out you can always get married and move to where he is and go to college.Military guys make pretty good money these days .Love finds a way and you will too.

Answer #3:

Sounds tough, but sounds like a situation I'm in. See im in high school and I'm in love with a girl in college who's in the state I used to live in 2 years prior. We do the same thing yall do with the talkin, txting, I write her love letters to remind her I love her, send her packages. It's just so dern cute you could puke. Ever since I left her, I've been gearing my school life to get me into a university that will be near her or in a state that's close. Yes it's an insane long shot, but I always think it'll work. I went to visit her last summer and it was like I never left. In my case shes two states away as opposed to half the nation. But since you feel all these feelings, you have2 make a decision( a WELL thought out one) about if you wan2 pursue this dude. If I ever got close to my girl again who knows wtf could happen. We could get married and life together , or we could find out we aint right for each other, but I tell ya, dont go round thinkin of what couldve been even if it does turn out not as planned. Point is you gave love a shot, and you dont get many. I honeslty believe this one girl is my 'one and only', I could be wrong, but I wont ever think for a second of not trying. Even if it means moving closer to her. In the end if you hit rock bottom, the only way you have left is .... up

hope this helps!

Answer #4:

Hi I can feel yor agony.G

Given the fact that life is full of surprises I share your wisdom in questioning our ability to keep a loong distant relationship for three years and under those circumstances described by you.

Whispering and exchanging sweet nothings is hot and exciting when the relationship is at its begining; it is so easy when you are carried away by the intoxication of this lovely feeling call love. But will it last? And you are sensible to ask now.

Take the opportunity to discuss your situation and thinking when he comes home for your date. Go through all the challenges and obstacles that both of you will face, and take your option.

Putting myself in your shoes and think for you, I may decide to concentrate on my college completely during the three final years, any relationships will invariably be a distraction. Three years is a long period, and anything can happen - some one more interesting can appear to complicate matter. And if my priority is my studies I must avoid the risk.





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