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Question: What should I do? Rushed marriage, pregnancy, abusive husband?


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Answer #1:

No grounds for divorce eh? Then don't divorce him if that is what YOU believe, but DON'T go back with him. Counseling to change somebody like that takes a VERY long time, and I bet he isn't willing to go. STAY IN UK where you are safe. DO NOT HAVE any correspondence with him whatsoever! And, next time, LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND HEAD!

Answer #2:

You need to leave, the problem is you married a guy using the internet, get a divorce and move away and call the police on him, your child doesn't need him in it's life and he won't change so just pack up and go back to the UK.

Answer #3:

I'm sorry to hear that you made such a big mistake. Divorce is all I can say. Having a child will push you to grow.

Americans are very emotional disturbed people. Which is why, most of them today make so many bad choices. I'm sorry to say this but you also made a bad choice.

Online dating never works. The only way to meet someone is to go out there and participate in activities. Parties, get togethers, baby showers, eat outs etc. You'll find someone when you do stuff with others.

Alexander Pope, "What is love if not love at first sight?" I think he meant first sight in real life, you know. face to face.

Answer #4:

This man is not capable of "repentance" without a lot of psychological counseling. He is an abuser, and he has anger issues and is a control freak. The seeds of these disorders run deep. He will never change unless he admits he needs help and goes into a program for abusers. Your pastor is full of crap and shouldn't be advising you to stay with a dangerous abusive person, especially with a child involved. You have grounds for divorce right now, and that's when the divorce should take place, right now. If you reunite with him, the abuse will certainly continue and will also spread to your child.
Cut and run, never look back.

Answer #5:

Listen to the "bells" they are really an inner voice telling you that you are in danger.
This man is a psycho and for your pastor to tell you to go back to him is appalling.
Why don't male ministers get it!!! I have never read in any Bible that you should be abused for any reason.
Granted you married with a cloud over your head, you did not really know this man and then the two of you never got to know the real person behind the internet screen until it was too late.

I would stay home and have the baby and tell the pastor that you are looking out for you and not worry what any public opinion has to say about it.
I would consider this trip as GOD'S way of telling me that this man is out of my life.
You are home in the comfort of your family...stay there.
Everything that professes to be Christian is not.
The proof is always in the pudding.
Peace

Answer #6:

It is time you cut your losses and move on. He will continue to abuse you and yes that is no relationship to bring up a child in. He abused you for no reason, then there is no reason to go back to him.

Answer #7:

Listen to your pastor.

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Just kidding of course.

Answer #8:

Punch your Pastor repent and tell him it never happend.

Answer #9:

One thing that so many "Christians" overlook is the fact that divorce, in many cases, is actually not a sin. I forget the exact verse, but the Bible does say that there is one excusable reason for divorce: marital unfaithfulness. Take it however you want, but I wholeheartedly believe that abuse, whether physical, verbal, or emotional, is considered "marital unfaithfulness." He has already broken his vows; divorce him and move on with life.





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