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Question #1:

I'm really depressed, i don't know where to go next please read?

Okay so, in january of 09 i ment my ex boyfriend. at first, he really did have strong feelings for me. he would do anything for me and wasn't just "trying to get in my pants" because, he really didn't want all that, never pressured me or anything. We dated on and off until about november of 09, He is 17 and i am 14.were exactly 3 years 1 month and 9 days apart. and we never had sex, so don't think that. after we broke up for good, we still texted and sorta acted like we were dating in december and part of january. and then for some other long story, i stopped talking to him at the end of january. then like the first week of February, i found out that he had just screwed this girl that i had really been close to and he knew i was, and then he dated/dates a girl i didn't really know but knew of. at first i was a wreck, but only for like a week. I got over it quick, wrote him one last letter for closure and that was that. i lost his number, he deleted his myspace and facebook, i didn't see him because he goes to a different school and i stopped hearing about him and never saw him again since november. anyway, so in February and part of march i was over him, didn't think about him all that then in late march (still wasn't talking to him) slowly but surely, i started forgiving him in my head. and in april i was a crying mess. never stopped, i realized the fact that he was probably gone forever. long story short, after a while listening to music and friends by my side i got back on my feet by may. but still thought about him a lot but it wasn't like my whole life. that's how my feelings stayed for june and july (still, never had gotten into contact with him) until yesterday...


I came home from my best friends house planning just to relax and watch tv for the rest of the night i got a call from my ex best friend (who i never talk to because shes a backstabbing cun.t) saying "are you home?!" i go "yeah why?" (hoping she wouldn't be like let me inside or something) she goes "look out your window!" i go "why?" and shes like "just do it hurry!" and i pull my curtain and there standing walking down my street is my ex boyfriend, that i havent talked to since feb. he looked at me and i closed the curtain quick. and to make this clear..we never talked yesterday we still haven't talked since feb. i became a mess, i started shaking and freaking out and having like a breathing attack i wanted to be with someone so i called my friend bee, and she was going to meet up with me. walking down there i had a heart attack. (i have a heart problem, its not really a heart attack it has happened before) from shock. i called my mom and she came and got me. when i woke up i was fine but then i was a crying mess for the rest of tonight. i woke up today and i don't know what to do with myself. please give me advice. and i mean advice cuz right now i really don't even want to be alive.
if you did read all of this, thank you so much.

Question #2:

What else can the kids do for the parents 40th anniversary to make it really special, besides throwing them a?

party? I know that is the "tradition" but it seems, logistically, it would be near impossible for us to coordinate, as the five kids are pretty spread out across the country (well except for the two bums who still live at home who I wouldn't trust to plan anything). A group vacation is out since we all are already planning a trip to Mexico next year for youngest brother's wedding. I still want to do something special for them, though. ANY ideas????
LOL, they meat at a PARTY! Actually, I love that idea, but it still involves planning a partly, lol.
*met*
No, they don't work.
They went to Cozumel on their honeymoon. Was thinking of sending them back there until my stinking brother announced he's getting married in Tulum next year and I don't really know if they'd want to go to Mexico twice in the same year.

Question #3:

Kitten Help Please!!!!!?

I just adopted a a pair of kittens today and am a bit concerned. Both kittens have been sneezing quite a bit since i brought them home. On top of that, both kittens have a discharge coming out of their eyes that im concerned about. The Humane Society gave me medication called Neo-Poly-Bac that i plan to apply tomorrow first thing. It does also seem like one of their eyes is very droopy. Their right eye appears to droop so that its about half shut while the other eye is open as day. I have made an appointment for them first thing monday morning so i have that taken care of. Is any of this cause for concern though that i should get them in asap?

Question #4:

really big friend fight!!! (bit long ,sorry)but why?!?

ok so me and my best friend got into a fight recently. me and him were like brother and sister. he recently started dating this really biznitchy girl. better put he's whipped. so recently a bunch of us had plans to chill just me him and three others. its our "crew" as we call it. so i met up with the three of our friends to find out he ditched us for this girl. i understand its his girlfriend but you don't ditch you let us know. so when we called him later on that night to find out what happened he told us this story about how he was hungry waiting for us so he took his girlfriend out to eat and would be there right when he finished about 3 hours later he still hadn't called so we called him again and he says that he was on a double date and couldn't leave yet. so once again he said he would be there soon. after 3 more hours past we all went home for the night to find out that he was at the beach with his girlfriend watching the moon rise. so we all got annoyed at him about it. the next day he told us to meet up for a scavenger hunt well me and one of my friends didn't want to go so we called him back that same night and said we couldn't make it. the next morning we are all plagued with texts and calls and messages about "why did u ditch us that's not right" well my best friends girlfriend doesn't like me. so he gets pissed at all of us for leaving the game. we told him the night before he kept us guess when we was gonna show up

is that right?

then he ignores me and our friend but he talks to one of my friends that i introduced him to. so later that night me and the other friend that was being ignored are talking and i find out that my best friend settled it with him so they were good. so i sit and wait for him to message me and talk to me about it. well that never happened. so i get texts from a few friends telling me to talk to him. im not that like that. he was the one that's problem this was so after two hours he never texted me so i texted him saying "i was asked to talk to u to work things out. but u know what im not stupid. i told u im not mad. but u think everything is about u so UM yea no bye" now normally if i said something like that he would ask if i was joking or if we were fighting he would say hey lets talk about this instead i got "K bye" as and answer.

Why is this happening?

so he use to call me little sis and now he replaced me with my best friend. i was talking to a few mutual friends and they all want me to talk to him... if i did wouldn't it be like i was running back to him? i don't want to seem like that.

ugh i don't know what to do ive cried for like 3 hours already and i don't know what to do help?

Question #5:

I have caught my dad cheating numerous times?

Long story short, I am 16 now and I'll be 17 soon, ever since I was very young I have caught my dad cheating on my mom. My dad has abused (physically, mentally) me, since I was extremely young, and my mom, but never my younger brother who is now 13. I've recently caught him cheating again saying absolutely racy things to a woman he met only two weeks ago.
I finally confronted him about the whole thing, he denied it.

Anyway, since then I have been living with my boyfriend of almost two years and his mom.
I don't want to come back home, my dad says I need counseling and he's cutting me from the cell phone plan because I hate him so much.
What am I going to do? I can't live at home like this.
To john M,
Well, for one thing my mom has always known. Sorry I should have said that earlier.
But, you don't know me, you have no right to assume that I am even having sex with my boyfriend. My parents allow me to stay there frequently.

Question #6:

How do you feel about this websites opinion of the signs?

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An ARROGANT ARIES will tell you how much he loves you, but in the same breath, that you must be eliminated because you are getting in the way of his plans for total world domination. He will also leave his dirty socks around and burn the toast.

A TOTALITARIAN TAURUS will boast and brag and bully you into submission, but just one little word of sarcasm from you and you will find him balled up in the fetal position crying in the closet. Also, a Taurus can't have sex without picking a fight first.

A JABBERING GEMINI will steal your money and then help you look for it. Also he'll make up wild stories about your alleged bisexuality and tell them to his friends. A master of miscommunication, he'll keep you home alone, by the telephone, waiting for his call.

A CALLOUS CANCER will give you a gift and then make you pay for it, not with money, but with sexual favours, emotional blackmail and pieces of your soul. An expert hostage taker, a Cancer uses self-pity and sarcasm to torture his victims and rap them in a prison of low-self-esteem.

A LAZY LEO will do everything to woo you ... date you, charm you, move in with you, impregnate you and spend Christmas dinner with your family, yet, while filling out a job application, still check the box that says his status is "single".

A VENGEFUL VIRGO will turn up his nose at your taste and then slowly begin to mold you into his vision of the perfect woman. You can never please him, but if you try to leave, he will stalk you for the rest of your life to try and get you back.

A LASCIVIOUS LIBRA is the first to tell you "I love you but I¹m not in love you." He might as well pee on your leg and then tell you it's raining... soon you get the sense he/she are keeping their options open in case someone better comes along.

A SCHEMING SCORPIO is voted most likely to try and convince you to have sex without a condom. Later on in the relationship, he will also try to convince you that having three-way sex with a hired prostitute is the only way to save your relationship.

A SILLY SAGITTARIUS will chase you and woo you until he has pierced you with his arrow of love. You'll soon realize you are just another pelt on this hunter's belt after he tells you all about his plans for his next romantic conquest, shortly after having sex with you.

A CAPITALISTIC CAPRICORN will coldly pretend he is in love with you, as long as you are useful to him in terms of social or business connections. This social climber doesn't want a girlfriend; he wants a pretty parrot with no mind of her own who faithfully repeats what he says.

AN ASININE AQUARIUS will go on for hours and hours about your deep connection as soulmates then forget your birthday. Easily distracted by pretty colours and shiny things, this flighty man is easily led astray by other women.

A PIOUS PISCES can only be described as "Christ without, Satan within." This long suffering martyr has a Ph.d in co-dependency and knows how to reel women in with shiny promises. However once you take the bait, you are trapped forever in the belly of the beast.
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Question #7:

Can i run this gaming program?

I am wondering if it is possible to have a portable hard-drive with the world of warcraft client fully installed and updated and hook it up to another computer without any world of warcraft files and still run the program off of the hard-drive.

The computer i am trying to play it on is fully compatible with the requirements, only problem is i can't download mass amounts of files off the internet. (max 3gb/month)

My plan is to send my hard drive back home to get it installed and updated on it.

Question #8:

Tonight's episode of Big Brother...?

Okay, so first off... Matt just messed EVERYTHING up in my opinion. He should have put them both up as nominations in the first place because either way... one of them would have been going home. Then tonight he was like, "Oh, my plan is gonna work. We can backdoor Rachel and Brendon" Yeah... because that happened...

Secondly, I get that Brendon and Andrew had a little "alliance" thing going but I personally think Andrew just messed everything up for himself that being like... "I'm coming after you. Now, can you use the veto on me?:)" hahaha

I like Andrew and Kathy and I don't wanna see either of them going home so I was hoping that Brendon would take off one of them and put up someone from the "Bregade" but of course he couldn't because then Rachel might have to be put up "/

Anyway, what are your thoughts on tonights episode and who do you think is gonna be evicted? :)

Question #9:

Should I be concerned about what the city estimates my house to be worth?

Last year I was planning on selling my house and it was appraised at 275K almost exactly a year ago. Since then, I decided to take my house off the market and keep it, so I have done MANY home improvements- brand new roof, central air conditioning, new furnace and water heater, new windows, a deck restoration, new insulation, and brand new carpet. I am also going to get my kitchen cabinets refinished and updated. I figured my house would be worth more than 275K now since I did so many improvements. However, I received my yearly property tax statement a few days ago and the city estimates my house to be worth 232K. I doubt they know about my home improvements, but I cannot figure out how it could possibly have lost that much equity, especially when I've done close to 30K in home improvements. Keep in mind I live in a really nice neighborhood, one of the best areas in the valley. How accurate are these property tax estimates? I am NOT planning to sell my house now, but it just upsets me that they estimated it so low... just last year they estimated it to be 265 (even though it appraised at 275, but that was somewhat accurate). Another thing that's disturbing is my parents have a house much smaller than mine in a neighborhood that is not nearly as nice as mine, and there's was estimated at 230K. My house is 3000 square feet and there's is only 1800. Do you think the city made a mistake? Should I be concerned about this?
FYI When I had it appraised last year it was so I could refinance it. Are city estimates for property taxes comparable to appraisals?

Question #10:

Help!! Relationship advice!?

So there's this guy that I've known for a little over four years; we went to high school together and were pretty good friends then. He's been in the Air Force for close to 3 years and has 3 years left. The thing is, for the past two years we've been texting and talking on the phone a lot, and the past 9 months or so, its practically non stop.He's told me multiple times that he likes me and that there's nobody who compares to me, we have similar interests, values, and goals, and hes a really great guy. He's coming home to visit his family in a few weeks and he wants to take me out on a date when he gets here. I think I'm really falling for him, but I don't know if I want a long distance relationship since I'm going to college in the fall, and he has 3 years left... Any advice would be great, especially from people who have been through similar situations.. Also hes not planning on reenlisting when the three years are up, and his base is on the opposite side of the country so visits would be limited. But i can't stop thinking about him...

Question #11:

What are your top 10 favorite Family Movies?

Pick Your Favorite Family Movies But No PG-13 and R Rated Movies. Just G and PG Rated Movies.

For Example:

Here's My List:
1. Space Jam
2. Cop and a Half
3. Mighty Morphin Power Rangers: The Movie
4. Toy Story
5. Home Alone
6. Like Mike
7. Lion King
8. Good Burger
9. Ernest Goes to Camp
10. Free Willy

Extra:
Matilda
Dennis the Menace
Richie Rich
Jingle All the Way
Turbo: A Power Rangers Movie
Little Giants
Angels in the Outfield
Lion King 2: Simba's Pride
Home Alone 2: Lost in New York
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles
Rookie Of The Year
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles II: Serect of The Ooze
The Wizard of Oz
The Sandlot
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles III
TMNT
Air Bud
D2: The Mighty Ducks
Air Bud Golden Receiver
Night of The Museum
Home Alone 3
Inspector Gadget
Free Willy II: Adventure Home
It Takes Two
The Game Plan

The Choice is yours

Question #12:

Pool party? How to make my boyfriend feel secure?

I'm having a pool party next week and I want to plan everything in advance. There is going to be 4 boys coming, that includeds my bf. And then 5 girls, including me. Anyways, there is one boy who is coming who likes me, I know this and so does my bf, but he's a mutual friend and I dont want to leave him at home. Anyways, I want to know how I can make my boyfriend feel secure, and comfident about me walking around with a bikkini top, and short shorts without feeling too jealous. What are some little tips to make him know that I care about him and only him? :)
my boyfriend wants me to invite this kid, because he is also his friend. We can't not invite him.

Question #13:

was i too creepy to this guy??

so i went out with this guy...for his sake lets call him "steve"...we only went out for about a day but then when we got back to his house i started licking his toes cuz i heard that guys get turned on by that.he made up an excuse on y i had 2 leave and the next day i called asking to go out with him again but he said he is busy for the rest of his life.he broke up with me 2 weeks ago.i am really devasted that he dumped me cuz we were perfect with together and i wuz planning on proposing to him our second date.so now for the past two weeks i have been watching him from his bushes from 6 pm to 11pm ya know whatchin him bring girls home, shower,change, etc. i cant help myself, i miss him SOOOOOOO much! so i have two question...was i creepy on the date making him dump me ,like were my expections too high? and my second one is am i creepy for stalking him?cuz i dont think i am...but i guess others think i am
yes i am serious plz dont be mean!!!

Question #14:

i have to hide a horse, help me?

ok, i have to hide this horse, dont ask why i just have to, no one can know about it for a little while until things clear up, but how can i do this. what i had planned was this
: i put up a portable horse pen in the woods
:i have a way to feed it it's grain and hey and water it
: at night when everyone goes to bed, i will sneak out and bring it to the barn with the other horses, then before everyone wakes i will sneak back out and take it back to it's pen


i am just really scared someone might find it, but i have to keep it hidden, seriously no one ask why, but it is really important.

what do i do during the day when people are home, it cant stay in it's pen all day until night time, i will take it out through the woods and let it eat grass on a lunge line, but how can i avoid any unwanted visitors??

please no rude comments!! if you are thinking of a rude comment dont say it, because you just dont understand, i HAVE!!! to hide it
i DID NOT steal a horse!!!! it just has to be hidden, lets just say i dont want anything to happen to it
oh, and the area where i live, there are no predictors that would a horse
predators, oops, lol

Question #15:

linen restoration question?

So my family's home caught on fire two months ago and i have been going through clothing from the house that could be salvaged, and I came across my father's favorite quilt that my great great grandmother made for him when he was a child. I plan on airing it out in the sun, because that is what I have been doing with everything else and it seems to get the smell of fire out enough so i can wash it in my washing machine without risk of my washing machine and dryer smelling like a fire. I was just wondering if anyone out there knew a good mixture of cleaning supplies to help with the smell, I know it wont look like it did but I would like to salvage it.

Thank You

Question #16:

What should I do? Rushed marriage, pregnancy, abusive husband?

I married a guy I met online, it was all a bit rushed. I am from the UK and he's American, I moved out there and after a couple of months he was very verbally abusive and he got physical with me, so I left and went to stay with a friend. Of course he begged me back the whole week and I thought since I married him, I would give him another chance, so I did and it was fine for a while and then the abuse started again, he'd yell, call me all the names of the day and throw things, he terrified me. I found out I was pregnant, it wasn't planned of course, I would never want to bring a child into an unstable marriage. I knew before I married him, I shouldn't have done it....now I can see why warning bells were going off...of course I didn't listen to them. Anyway to cut a long story short, I came home with him to see my family and he had to go back, but I decided to stay and have the baby here for fear things would get worse and I would be stuck there once baby born there and is automatically an American Citizen....I told him he needs counselling before I would consider going back, of course he's not happy. I just don't trust the whole thing...I have never trusted his character, the funny thing is he confesses to be a christian, as I am, and my pastor told me if he truly repents over this-that I have no grounds for divorce. Thing is he so-called repented the last time and continued to be that way!!!
My pastor did tell me to think of me and baby now of course and for me to have her here, and that I will know if he truly repents....

Question #17:

Is it logical to quit my job to go back to school?

I have a good job that pays well and has great hours (my husband stays at home with our son). I am very good at it and am frequently recognized for my work. I know that there are many people out there struggling that would do anything to be in my current position.

However, I never took the time after high school to get a degree (I am 25 now). I regret not doing so and I have been seriously contemplating on whether or not I should go to school.

My dream job is to be a high school teacher, then one day, high school counselor. I know initially after going to school I would be making less than what I am now, but it would be my DREAM JOB.

Also, my husband would go back to school full time. So once he was completed, we would have that additional income.

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Our plan would be to move back to the town where my in-laws live and our son would go to preschool during the day and my in-laws could babysit if and when we needed them too.

If we lived there, we could start out at the local community college, which is only $68 (yes, $68!!) a credit hour. And I could get a TEACH Grant going there, so that's even less of an expense for us.

As of now, we have little debt (cars paid off, we rent, one credit card with $1500 balance).

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Sorry this got so lengthy. I guess since the idea just sounds so out-of-this-world to me, I just need some other people's thoughts on it. Thanks.

Question #18:

Is it romantic to surprise your partner with flowers?

I've seen it on TV, so here's my plan:

I come home about 30 minutes late from work. I walk towards my girlfriend with flowers behind my back, without her noticing of course, and when she says "Hi" I'll show her the flowers and say "hi" back.

Thoughts?

Question #19:

Which one of these John Hughes films should I watch first?

Pretty in Pink or 16 Candles. I'm a fan of John Hughes and I really like his films like Home Alone, Ferris Bueller's Day-Off, The Breakfast Club and Planes, Trains and Automobiles. I plan on watching both Pretty in Pink and 16 Candles but which one should I watch first?

Question #20:

Do you think I screwed up with this girl? What could I do to fix it?

About a month ago, I started talking to this girl, she was one of my managers at the time. We would take turns texting one another, but then I went on vacation. We would still text one another back and forth, and while I was gone, she got fired. She texted me that and told me. On my way back home, I called her and asked if she wanted to hang out. It was not a date. We hung out. We saw a movie, dinner, and had fun at the park. There were perfect opportunities to tell her how I felt, but I chickened out. When I got home, I texted her telling her that I just hung out with a really pretty girl, and she thought it was sweet. The next day, I posted another sweet thing about it on my facebook, and again she responded telling it was sweet. Then I got crazy, and for 4 days I posted all these sweet things. That friday, I called her asking if she wants to chill that Monday. She told me that she will let me know. That Sunday came, so I texted her asking her again, and she said she cant she has other plans, but is sure to do it sometime this week. So Monday, I texted her asking if she wants to kick it on Friday. She did not respond. So I called her the next day askiing her, and she said that she will let me know, she has a new job and does not know her schedual. She told me that she started Monday and was there all day. That explains why she never texted back, and she clarified by saying "I dont want you to think this is a rejection, because it is not like that." A couple hours later she posted things on her facebook that makes it seem like she met somebody. Basically, my question is do you think I screwed this up? Do you think she is lying? What can I do to make this better, because this is driving me crazy. I should let you all know that I am 20 and never even been on a date, and she is 21, and broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years recently due to him cheating on her. So what am I supposed to do. Any help will be appreciated.





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